Life is the greatest learning place ever. All that one needs to do is, take a break and observe- say nothing,hear everything. Listen and feel your every thought with every word and action –heard and done. Just try and analyze how various thoughts arise, link and how new ones are formed. It gives an insight, I don’t know exactly about what but probably an insight to us, an insight to human behavior or an insight to how emotions and thoughts work with and within us.
That was way too much of philosophy, but yes this was the base to the thought of my today’s blog.
Have you ever wondered, like when we achieve something, will we be equally happy about it, if, when we dint have people to share the achievement with, as we would be when we have someone to share it with ? I don’t think so. I don’t think then that achievement would ever matter- it would be as good as achieving nothing. So yes, somewhere it is true and you would agree that nothing is more important in your life than the people in your life. They define your Achievement, Success and Happiness.
The People in your life, different in their own ways, some have left, some have stayed and some are yet to come; have all defined and will be defining a part of you at every stage. So, we should be thankful to each and every person in our lives, even those who have left, because your past was your present defining moment once. There are also people, who may have given you bitter experiences (as you think), I would call them Angel in Disguise, who taught me those things, that were needed to be learnt , may be not in the best way but for some best reason.
Sometimes, we can’t stop disliking, hating or doing ill things to others - after all we are humans, so it is totally normal. But, what we can do or probably we can make an effort to do is that, if at any point in life we realize what we did was wrong, we could at the least Apologize! (Not that difficult). I agree one can’t be sorry for everything or sorry cannot replace for what one did, but, realizing one’s mistake and making an effort to be brave enough to say sorry, will any day make a better you(if not anything). When you find difficulty, in forgiving someone, just ask yourself -how many times people have forgiven you for your mistakes? If you can be forgiven, so can they be.
Appreciate and be thankful that you have people in your life. Give them the priority they deserve over other things. Your people give your things the meaning; things don’t give you any meaning. To fight, hate, not talk, etc all are ok- But, all are Ok Only for Some Time. Say Sorry, Forgive, Forget, Love and Spread Happiness- Because one day you will stand at a place where nothing else would matter more than YOUR PEOPLE!
That was way too much of philosophy, but yes this was the base to the thought of my today’s blog.
Have you ever wondered, like when we achieve something, will we be equally happy about it, if, when we dint have people to share the achievement with, as we would be when we have someone to share it with ? I don’t think so. I don’t think then that achievement would ever matter- it would be as good as achieving nothing. So yes, somewhere it is true and you would agree that nothing is more important in your life than the people in your life. They define your Achievement, Success and Happiness.
The People in your life, different in their own ways, some have left, some have stayed and some are yet to come; have all defined and will be defining a part of you at every stage. So, we should be thankful to each and every person in our lives, even those who have left, because your past was your present defining moment once. There are also people, who may have given you bitter experiences (as you think), I would call them Angel in Disguise, who taught me those things, that were needed to be learnt , may be not in the best way but for some best reason.
Sometimes, we can’t stop disliking, hating or doing ill things to others - after all we are humans, so it is totally normal. But, what we can do or probably we can make an effort to do is that, if at any point in life we realize what we did was wrong, we could at the least Apologize! (Not that difficult). I agree one can’t be sorry for everything or sorry cannot replace for what one did, but, realizing one’s mistake and making an effort to be brave enough to say sorry, will any day make a better you(if not anything). When you find difficulty, in forgiving someone, just ask yourself -how many times people have forgiven you for your mistakes? If you can be forgiven, so can they be.
Appreciate and be thankful that you have people in your life. Give them the priority they deserve over other things. Your people give your things the meaning; things don’t give you any meaning. To fight, hate, not talk, etc all are ok- But, all are Ok Only for Some Time. Say Sorry, Forgive, Forget, Love and Spread Happiness- Because one day you will stand at a place where nothing else would matter more than YOUR PEOPLE!
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