The Gyan of Life !

I am writing after really a long time, almost a year and guess what I am writing this on a Monday in middle of office hours (and my boss is in office)- Things that we do sometimes !

Last six months have been the craziest six months of my life so far. These six months have literally made me reflect so many things of me as an individual, which I have always lived by, made me taste the sour moments of humans - your dear ones leaving you when you always believed they would never, made me experience how it feels for dreams to come true and most of it made me more self dependent emotionally.

Life is a journey and people board the train and keep departing at different intervals but then with time you start believing some people are going to be there till the end of your journey and then one day they choose to depart the train. BAM! Then it feels like an alarm ringing to wake you up to the reality and tell you “No matter how good were you to them, no matter how good intentions you have, no matter how you lived to keep them happy, but they are there because they want to be and not because you want them to be”. Okay, this took me back in time, but come on we are humans, it will take little more time but the harsh moments will eventually fade ( hopefully for everyone). These harsh moments do teach you one thing, they make you value your good times more and with the motto “be positive” – keep the good memories alive in yourself and don’t let those harsh moments kill those times, since they are the same people who gave you happiness at one point in time. Be happy and pray for them to be happy too.J

There are some decisions that you take from heart and then there are people who also react from heart and since your heart tell you what you want; there is nothing right or wrong about any decision/feeling/reaction. It is a choice you make, and it is a choice others make to accept and not to accept. I personally feel one should be accepting towards things, it may hurt you but if you accept it is easier to move on in life. Acceptance makes life simple, Simple !

About the dream come true- it is a dream come true, just out of the blue one day you realise you are living your dream. Just want to count this blessing and continue to live with it. (Yes, I am being a little discreet in telling about my dream- Just giving myself a mysterious touch ;))

One thing which really comes out of all this is – no one stays forever, what you have you have it now; so value what you have now, express what you feel now, live your life NOW ! You don’t want to have a life where you get up someday and regret anything in life. As I live by and also keep telling people- Do what your heart says, because that is what you really want , that is what will keep you happy and that is what will never make you live in regret. Also, being dependent feels good and secured but make sure don’t lose “YOU” in the process. Be happy, that is when you can keep others happy J .

I don’t know if the post made any sense, but I just had quick few minutes to pen down something. This was straight from my head. NOW- Back to work!